All the Becomings that you have to undergo are right and necessary for they are meant to provide you with the experiential knowledge that will empower you to elevate yourself along the Path that Perfects Character!
To the lesser evolved ones the Becomings of Life are often regarded as needless obstacles that are disrupting their life’s flows. But to the more evolved ones they are seen as opportunities for learning how to overcome them in their own ways. (STQ-2013-p18,8)